Who's Who

John & Cindy Miller

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Cindy Miller & John Miller

John Miller;Character Coach; Founder of Solving Conflicts LLC; BS Psychology, 1987, Union College; author of the Solving Conflicts system of relationship and character coaching; and co-author of two books:

Pure Gold: Encouraging Character Qualities In Marriage, with Susanne M. Alexander, and her husband, Craig A. Farnsworth of www.MarriageTransformation.com.

Can We Dance? Learning the Steps for a Fulfilling Relationship with Susanne M. Alexander.

In 1994, John married his best friend, Cindy. It was the second marriage for both of them. He is a father of 3 sons and 1 daughter from his first marriage. While College honed his writing, research, and intellectual abilities, John considers that the best classroom is real-life experience combined with the quest for truth. John comes from among five successive generations ravaged by divorce. He considers himself among the elders of experience who have looked first-hand at how divorce destroys families.

Within the context of an inherent personal need to discover the truth, no matter what the cost, Solving Conflicts LLC was born. John developed the company's system of character assessment and philosophy over the course of twenty-five years. It comes from John's own personal use of this system and his research into the meaning of character strengths.

John and Cindy Miller attribute the success of their fourteen-year marriage to their focus on character strength that this system provides. This system of character assessment is the backbone of Solving Conflicts LLC.

It is John and Cindy Miller's mission to make this cutting-edge system of relationship and character coaching available to all people.

Cindy Miller; Co-Director of Solving Conflicts LLC. Cindy is also not a stranger to adversity. With the death of her mother at only two years of age; with dysfunctional role models in her childhood, Cindy was compelled to become emancipated by age 14 from her father's house.

While surviving her childhood and teens was a severe challenge, the challenge would only increase in her young adult life. Life itself would teach Cindy that she would have to proceed with alertness and courage to survive. With every obstacle that was set before her, she became even more determined to overcome them.

The year John and Cindy met, 1992, would be a long-time coming for them both. However, their diverse character qualities, skills, and abilities would combine together to become a considerable strength. And together they built a small marketing business that would provide the time and resources to begin Solving Conflicts LLC ...one good choice at a time! (along with some incredibly stupid ones!) ... crossing over plenty of mountains and valleys in the process.

While this system of relationship and character coaching is the backbone of Solving Conflicts LLC, Cindy is its body, heart, and soul!  Together, John and Cindy depend on the principals of Solving Conflicts to unite and strengthen their marriage... one good choice at a time.

You may contact John or Cindy Miller through the Contact Us Page.